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While <\/span>aging in place<\/span><\/a> maintains independence and dignity, it does, perhaps ironically, require a stronger support system to be put in place. Initiating the topic is hard, but the increasing popularity of safe living at home with community support as your parents grow older proves it\u2019s worth the effort!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The initial conversation requires some forethought and delicacy. We\u2019ll outline the broad strokes on how you should start this conversation below. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/div>\n

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Prepare Ahead of Time<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re ready to have this talk with your parents, come prepared. Have this talk while relocation is still an option; in other words, while your parents are still capable of handling a big move if necessary. In case their current home or yours isn\u2019t suitable for renovations, moving while your parents are still in good health makes a world of a difference. Do research on local support or care options. It\u2019s also a good idea to make sure they\u2019ve got healthcare providers in the area as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Get your main points organized before you start the conversation too. It might be useful to write out an outline, especially if you have siblings or other family members who will be part of the conversation. Try to anticipate your parents\u2019 concerns and shape the conversation around them, not just what you think they should do. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/div>\n

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Be Prepared to Listen<\/span><\/h2>\n

Undoubtedly, your parents will have their own opinions on the topic. It\u2019s their lives, after all! They know what will help them feel comfortable as they adapt to changes in lifestyle and ability levels. This is an open dialogue, so make sure you\u2019re going into it with flexibility in mind.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your parents may not be open to having more help. Listen to their concerns with an open mind and plenty of patience. It may take time for them to admit extra help is necessary, either now or down the road. Ask questions or for elaboration to learn more about why they feel the way they do. Good communication is key to helping you both feel satisfied with a solution down the road.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\"man\n <\/div>\n

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Consider Their Mindset and Perspective<\/span><\/h2>\n

If your parents are resistant to receiving extra help, be kind and understanding. There aren\u2019t any right or wrong choices here, just different options to help them navigate daily life as they age. You may both end up compromising on what you\u2019d ideally choose. Your parents\u2019 health and happiness come first.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Though your relationship with your parents may change as they age, don\u2019t step into a parental role yourself. It may be tempting to act as if you \u201cknow best,\u201d but being respectful and considerate of their opinions goes a long way. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/div>\n

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Stick to Your Purpose<\/span><\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t belabor the point. Aging in place is a big, potentially scary topic. Your main concern should be helping your parents begin to make plans on navigating staying home through physical, mental or other lifestyle changes. This should be about feeling out how your parents respond to the idea. You can leave the details for later.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, if the talk goes well, you can outline a few ideas for aging in place together. There\u2019s no one way to have this discussion.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n <\/div>\n

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Take Breaks as Needed<\/span><\/h2>\n

If the talk goes off-track or turns into an argument, it\u2019s completely acceptable to pick it back up at another time. Plan to have the conversation in a quiet, calm environment to reduce outside friction from the start. However, the nature of the topic may understandably upset your parents. Go in with a kind, understanding perspective, and allow time for breaks or even resume on a different day if needed. Cooling-off time will help everyone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

An easy way to help reduce conflict is to use \u201cI\u201d statements. For example, instead of saying, \u201cYou won\u2019t listen to what I\u2019m saying,\u201d try saying, \u201cI don\u2019t feel like I\u2019m being heard.\u201d This automatically reframes the sentence into a statement instead of an accusation.<\/span><\/p>\n\"old\n <\/div>\n

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If Things Go Well: Discuss Next Steps<\/span><\/h2>\n

Whether your next steps include outlining a care plan with an in-home healthcare provider, remodeling areas like stairs or <\/span>bathtubs<\/span><\/a> to <\/span>safely meet your parents\u2019 needs<\/span><\/a> or a simple daily check-in, having an idea of what comes next is beneficial! Don\u2019t plan on having it happen the same day as your initial discussion, but working on what comes next for aging in place is the natural progression.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This blog is part of our <\/span><\/i>Aging in Place<\/span><\/i><\/a> series. Learn more about how to navigate aging at home with our main post or explore more in-depth with blogs like this! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n <\/div>\n

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